#but she’s the empath or whatever 🫡

[cvctuslesbian]

my mom tried to call me an idiot today because i said that i think the united states being built on the blood and subjugation of other people is bad

[marshmallowprotection]

Hello~! I was wondering if I can ask for a romantic male matchup please?

I’m a 25 year old woman and my pronouns and she/her. I have big green eyes and wear glasses. I also have lots of piercings (nose and few ears) I also have wavy shoulder length burgundy colored dyed hair. My body type would be considered curvy/chubby…which I’m very insecure about.

Personality: I’m shy and awkward around strangers, but I’m much more outgoing, talkative, giggly, bubbly and friendly once I get to know you. I have a spicy, sarcastic, mischievous and moody side to me though 😅. I have a bit of a temper and it’s hard for me to bite my tongue at that time, so my spicy and sarcastic side comes out. But it doesn’t take me long to cool off and be back to my normal bubbly side. I suffer from anxiety, ptsd and depression, so I need someone who can be patient and understanding when it comes to that. I guess I have an aura that makes people feel that I’m trustworthy and reliable because so many people come to me and just spill everything to me. It could be my friends, family even people I hardly know. I’m often regarded as the “safe haven” friend when it comes to that. I’m very compassionate and loyal to my loved ones. I don’t like confrontation, but if I feel like it’s necessary I’ll speak up for myself. My friends would also describe me as being cute and sweet with a hint of spice lol. I’m super sensitive and will cry at least like three times a week lol. I also have a habit of zoning out, being in my own little world and being confused 90% of the time lmaooo. I would describe my sense of humor dry, dark and awkward…so most of the time I’m the only one laughing at my jokes 🫡.

Likes/dislikes and hobbies: I HATE spiders (arachnophobia), loud abrupt noises, crowds and being randomly touched especially by strangers. I also can’t stand rude people, injustices and seeing my loved ones cry/hurt. I LOVE animals (especially cats) and kids. I have two cats of my own named Jasper and Mochi! I’d also like to have kids sometime in the future. I have a weakness for anything cute, soft and fluffy. So I have a bad addiction with pillows, blankets and stuffed animals. I also enjoy traveling, singing, playing instruments, doing my makeup, shopping, gaming, banter, nature, going on walks/drives and napping! I can literally sleep for hours on end if I’m allowed to lol. And I LOVE anything spooky, especially going on ghost hunts and tarot card readings. I’m actually leaning to do tarot readings!

I enjoy cuddles and physical affection, but only from my s/o. Being touched by random people freaks me out and spikes my anxiety. I prefer to show my love through gifts and acts of service. But also through teasing lol. I’d like to have someone who can keep up with my spice/banter and not be annoyed with it lol. I can be super clingy and possessive in relationships as well.

Thank you so much and I hope you have a good day/night~! 😊

I match you with...

Zen!

You're not looking for a knight in shining armor, you're looking for someone who understands your place in life. You're looking for the partner who sees your pain and empathizes, extending a hand to you with a smile on their face as you navigate your partnership together for the better. Who better to do that than Zen? A man who knows the pain of not being understood by people because they only take you at face value. He knows where you're coming from and he wants to be there for you just like you want to be there for him.

Together, the two of you are a dynamic duo who stands strong as partners, side by side, smiling through whatever challenges come your way because you understand each other. You know what the other is going to do because you talked about it beforehand. You've got this down pat. You cry when you need to into his arms and he finally lets his guard down to show you his most vulnerable self on the nights were it's too much.

I also feel like it's worth saying that he out of anyone else understands what it feels like to be in a position where you have boundaries that haven't been respected. For the longest time, he's tried to pretend that it's okay when it's not, and if you've had to do the same thing, that's where the two of you find a sense of kinship. It's nice to know that you'll always have a safe haven in each other, turning to each other when you know your partner is there can make a world of difference. 

[phinamina]

tokka is nasty 🫡 (where did it ever be semi-canon? i get that whole serpents pass episode but that could honestly be taken as platonic. affection doesnt have to be romantic, and i think toph was already sort of sensitive due to appa becoming lost and her kinda blaming herself. ive always seen tophs relationship with anyone purely platonic and have never actually seen any romance with her. genuine question)

forgiveness is a big aspect of the show, but azula hasnt even had a redemption arc. even if she did in someones aus or whatever (i even have an au where she gets a redemption) i personally wouldnt ship it because of azula and aangs relationship in canon. i dont think he doesnt have empathy for azula, as you said he is CANONLY a very empathic and caring person, thats one of my favorite parts of him.

i do know what a crackship is. but i feel like its not that comedic if its a proship unless your specifically making fun of proshippers (even then the jokes are overdone. i dont think proshippers are acceptable at all) i love crack most of the time, but there is a limit.

no, maybe it doesnt matter who started this. but it personally matters to me because this conversation didnt really need to happen. i connect with things deeply and feel deeply, just because it doesnt matter to you doesnt mean it doesnt matter to me. i dont wanna be having this conversation but it is what it is.

for the logically and mentally comparing things, i have absolutely nothing to say or argue abt on this one 👍 i just dont really compare all that much unless somebody brings it up first. i do compare at times although, i just didnt think that saying aang being jealous is beloved to me would be all that big of a deal. i do not think jealousy is necessarily a good thing, i just like every part of his character and since i dont see a lot of people talk about it i wanted to say something about it. its not like only the jealous part, its more like all of him.

glad we both hate on zutarians

i do not actively try to hate on people who ship these things and go to them to complain. i brought it up because you asked me if “even like ATLA” and you talked about toxic behavior. which would be azulaang. seeing as shes tried to kill him multiple times. snd zukaang because of their age gap.

i think we may be able to come to a compromise about this, but i will never support a proship like zukaang or azulaang or even tokka.

jealous aang will always be beloved to me